Bebe Webner died last night at the age of 86. Our hearts and thoughts go out to my cousin Tony and his family, Uncle Mack and his family, and the other members of the Webner clan whose lives were touched by this good person.
Aunt Bebe has been a fixture in our lives for as long as I can remember. She and Uncle Tony were frequent visitors to our house when we were kids, first when we lived in Akron and then when we moved to Columbus. She was a sun worshipper who always had beautiful tan, a deft bridge player, and a huge sports fan whose biggest passion was Ohio State football. Our family gatherings were frequently punctuated by her laughter and her memorable voice, with just a touch of gravel at its lower registers.
Aunt Bebe was one of those people who taught you a lot just by how they lived their lives. She worked for years for an Akron doctor, babysat his children, and became a beloved part of his family. She was widowed for 27 years and lived frugally, yet remained relentlessly positive about her life and the world at large. Her birthday and anniversary cards always had words of support and were signed with her trademark closing, “hugs, Aunt Bebe.” She was an everyday example of self-sufficiency who mowed her own lawn and kept her house in spotless condition until she moved to a smaller, more manageable apartment only a few years ago.
Even Aunt Bebe’s celebrity status as “Buckeye Bebe,” a huge fan and pen pal with former Ohio State football coach Jim Tressel, had an important lesson to impart if you were paying attention. Aunt Bebe didn’t write to Coach Tressel to try to get an autograph or some item of memorabilia that she could sell on eBay. Instead, she wrote because she cared and wanted to provide words of encouragement to a person she admired. She figured that Coach Tressel could use some uplifting words every now and then — just like the rest of us.
Aunt Bebe’s final days had their own valuable lesson, too. She knew the end was near and was fully prepared and at peace with her life. She welcomed the chance to move beyond.
God bless you, Aunt Bebe!
What a beautiful tribute – she will live on!
“Aunt” Bebe has been a family friend for years and best friend to my recently deceased aunt, Jackie Clowney. Your tribute was spot on and she will truly be missed by all who knew and loved her. GO BUCKS!