The other day someone asked why I wasn’t writing more about the latest episode in the ongoing Trump Administration Train Wreck in Washington, D.C. I’m not sure exactly which deplorable event triggered the question — and I guess that’s the problem, isn’t it?
There are so many appalling, clumsy, bumbling, disgraceful, weird, inept, and dispiriting things happening in Washington, D.C. and the country these days that you could write about the misadventures of the President and his ever-changing team all day, every day. And some people pretty much do exactly that. They’ve become immersed in the failures and struggles and cheap insults and ill-advised statements and revel in addressing them and talking about them.
Then there are those of us, like me, who just don’t have limitless capacity for outrage and who like to think there is more to their lives than President Twitter. I care about what’s happening, of course, but with everything else I’ve got going right now I just can’t deal with it 24 hours a day. I don’t want the fact that Donald Trump is the President of the United States to permanently change my personality, or my outlook on life, or my relations with family, friends, and colleagues. So I’m going with the calculated exposure approach. I’ll try to keep track of the latest firestorm, but when it comes to really engaging with things I’m going to pick my spots.
We had some friends over on Saturday night, and as the evening ended I found myself thinking how great it was that HBO is airing the new season of Game of Thrones right now. Why? Because it gives us safe, neutral ground for talking about something other than Trump and politics. Because it seems like pretty much everybody is watching the show, you can have an enjoyable conversation about most hated characters or best battle scenes or regrettable deaths, and nobody is going to get really angry because you identify Ser Davos Seaworth rather than Arya Stark as your favorite character. It was great to be able to freely talk about something without worrying that someone was going to touch some third rail in the conversation that would leave people feeling upset.
For me, at least, there’s a lot more to the world than Donald Trump.