Kish shared a fascinating article with me, a New York Times piece about a man who was upset by the election of Donald Trump and, ever since, has decided to retreat from getting information about what’s going on in the world.
A former corporate executive, Erik Hagerman lives alone on a pig farm in Glouster, Ohio, in the southeastern part of the state. He’s consciously avoided getting any information about what has happened in America since November 8, 2016, and has taken steps with his friends and his life to enforce the ban. No social media. Constantly reminding his mother, family, and friends, and the baristas at the local coffee shop, to honor what he calls The Blockade. And, as a result, he is blissfully unaware of everything that is happened for the past year and a half.
I say “blissfully,” because Mr. Hagerman reports that he’s “emotionally healthier than I’ve ever felt.”
When I first read the article, I thought that Mr. Hagerman’s solution to the news of President Trump’s election sounded pretty juvenile and immature. Really? An adult who can’t cope with adverse news and decides to disengage from the world as a result, like the kid who gets mad at his friends and takes his football and goes home? But after thinking about it, I wonder if Mr. Hagerman’s example isn’t worth emulating, even if only a little bit. Why work yourself into a lather on a daily basis about faraway political races, investigations, congressional hearings, and other that are beyond your control? Why expose yourself to social media memes that are just going to get under your skin? It makes you think about what’s really important, doesn’t it?
Most of us don’t have the ability to move to a pig farm in rural Ohio, live a solitary life, and shield ourselves from reality. Our jobs require us to have a least a rudimentary awareness of what is going on in the world, as we deal with customers and clients and colleagues. But maybe some disengagement from the big, bad world, and a renewed focus on our families and things like reading the classics, taking long walks with our loved ones, or starting a new do-it-yourself project at home would be good for us all.
A total blockade won’t work, but total immersion isn’t a wise thing, either. Trying to strike a balance makes sense.