The Pride Parade

When you go to the office in downtown Columbus on Saturdays, as I frequently do, you never know what you might find.  Today, it was the Columbus Pride Parade, running on High Street from downtown Columbus to Goodale Park.

As I’ve mentioned before, Columbus is very proud of its gay community and its status as a gay-friendly city, and the GLBT community and its friends and supporters were out in force for today’s parade.  It was a beautiful sunny day and large crowds lined both side of High Street as a long line of paraders marched and rolled past.  There was lots of hooting and hollering and hugging, and some spectacular costumes and floats, all done with a dash of humor.

Events like the Pride Parade help to make Columbus an interesting, inclusive place to live.

A Proud, Gay-Friendly City

Every year or so, some national publication prints an article about the large gay and lesbian community in Columbus.  The most recent one that I can remember is this piece from the New York Times.  The pieces are always earnest and respectful, but underneath there is always a tone of, well, astonishment.  Deep down, you know the writer is wondering:  how can it possibly be that this football-crazy Midwestern town is not only tolerant of gays and lesbians, but actually gladly welcomes them in politics, the arts, business, and every other aspect of the community?  That reaction is insulting, really, but it is the kind of response we in flyover country often get from our friends on the coasts.

These articles, I think, miss something about the character of Columbus that makes the city’s openness to gays, lesbians, and people of every other sexual inclination perfectly understandable.  Sure, Columbus is a college town, with the kind of liberal attitudes associated with that reality, and the fact that some of the largest businesses in town are fashion retailers like The Limited and Abercrombie & Fitch undoubtedly has an impact.  The fact is, however, that Columbus has been gay-friendly for as long as I can remember, since well before The Limited and A&F grew to their current size and prominence.

I think the real reason Columbus welcomes gays and lesbians is that Columbus is that Columbus welcomes everybody.  In reality, very few people in Columbus are from Columbus originally.  Most of us moved here at some point over the past few decades, when Columbus grew rapidly into the largest city in Ohio.  This city doesn’t have old-line blue bloods who have lived here for generations, turning up their noses at newcomers and trying to exclude people from community affairs.  We all came to Columbus because we liked it and saw opportunity here, and we’re proud that our town is one of the few growing communities in the Midwest.  If you want to come to this city to join in the boom and contribute, however you can, to making Columbus an even better and more vibrant place to live, why should we care one whit about something that is none of our business, like your sexual orientation?  The people of Columbus are just glad you are here.

So come to our fair city and notice, if you must, the openly gay and lesbian couples who freely live their lives here.  But don’t act like Columbus’ attitude about such matters is surprising, because that reaction says more about you than it does about Columbus.  This city has been a proud, gay-friendly city for a very long time.  You just haven’t noticed.


It’s About Time

Last night President Obama directed the Department of Health and Human Services to require all hospitals that receive Medicare and Medicaid funding — which means virtually every hospital in the United States — to afford visitation rights to the partners of gay men and lesbians who are hospitalized.  It is hard for me to believe that, in the year 2010 in America, there are hospitals that bar same-sex partners from visiting patients, but apparently there are still some such benighted institutions in the land.  It is to President Obama’s great credit that he took action to end that practice.

If a hospital’s mission is to help sick people get better, how can they reconcile that purpose with a a policy that excludes a loved one who could provide emotional support and comfort to the patient?  Common sense says that the visit of a loved one will make the hospital patient feel happier and less isolated and therefore quicker to feel better.  Studies have supported that conclusion.  Given that fact, hospitals should be welcoming any visitor who will facilitate the healing process, regardless of the nature of the visitor’s relationship with the patient or the hospital’s unrequested and unnecessary moral judgment on the propriety of that relationship.

It is too bad that the President of the United States had to issue instructions that will cause hospitals to simply focus on their mission of healing, because it says something unfortunate about some American hospitals.  But, if a presidential edict was needed to implement basic fairness, I am glad President Obama supplied it.