I’m a member of a Facebook group for members of my high school graduation class. It’s a good use of the Facebook social media platform, one that allows you to wish people happy birthday and helps you find out what has happened to people you knew 50 years ago.
Recently a photo montage was posted for the group of classmates who have died. It’s a regrettably long list. Our class was a huge one–the biggest in the history of our high school, if I recall correctly. The AIDS epidemic felled a number of our classmates back in the ’80s, and more recently we’ve received the sad news of more passings. Our class has reached the danger years of the mid-60s, when many diseases can take their toll.
It was a sad experience to watch that Facebook slide show. In a class of more than 800, I knew some of the people well, and some I really knew not at all; some of the deaths I knew about, while others were a grim surprise. I thought of some of the interactions I had with those I knew, and for the people who did not look familiar, I wondered if we may have been the same homeroom, taken a class together, or walked by each other in one of the long hallways–but we all definitely shared the space in a distinct place and time. The montage featured a lot of high school yearbook photos, and it was difficult to think that those fresh-faced, clear-eyed kids, in their frequently bad ’70s haircuts and outfits, are no more.
William Shakespeare’s verse in Cymbeline is apt:
Fear no more the heat o’ the sun,
Nor the furious winter’s rages;
Thou thy worldly task hast done,
Home art gone, and ta’en thy wages:
Golden lads and girls all must,
As chimney-sweepers, come to dust.